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Galatians 1:10
For am I now seeking the approval of man, or of God? Or am I trying to please man? If I were still trying to please man, I would not be a servant of Christ.
Are you a people pleaser? Do you plan out your actions regarding how others will see you? Do you resist doing certain actions because it may offend someone? How about do you think if your actions will bring yourself pleasure as a priority? This is the opposite of how we as Christians should be. Now I am not saying that we should intentionally offend others, but our actions should be based off will this be pleasing to God, not will this be pleasing to someone else, not even ourselves.
The issue here comes down to pride. What I am getting at here is that when we look at how we can please others, to try to gain the approval of man, we are looking at how we can make ourselves look good in the eyes of others. So in other words we are placing ourselves at the center of our lives. You see when we try to please others our motivation is often to make ourselves look good to the people around us, think about it would you rather have someone tell you what you want to hear or tell you the truth? Would you rather be told that you look good in that suit, or would you rather be told about the tear in the pants around the back pocket? We don’t like it when people are trying to just please us, so why do we often try to please others by avoiding to temporarily hurt them.
You see when we focus on God and are motivated to please Him, others may eventually thank us. That is because when we share God’s truth it may cause some discomfort to people, because of the conviction of sin, but it is a temporary discomfort if it eventually leads them to the foot of the cross. I have heard it said somewhere, and I believe it does hold true, you have to really hate someone not to be willing to share the Gospel with them because when you refuse to share the Gospel you are acting as judge and jury convicting them to eternal punishment. So you see when you try to please others, while temporarily pleasing them, it ultimately hurts them. So which would you rather be a people pleaser or a God pleaser? Do you want to give people temporary pleasure, or would you rather offer them eternal hope?
